It severely irks my soul, I swear, when people say 'I've been through hell' or 'it's hell' or something like that. Because really, no, you haven't. It's not possible for you to say you've been through hell and be talking about it because if you have been through hell, you're dead. And if you're in hell, you're not getting out. Whatever you went through may have really been terrible. But if you've been through it, it must be over. Hell doesn't end; it doesn't stop, you don't get out ever. Maybe if God dies, but He's not so there's no chance of you getting out of hell and you can't talk about it. Whatever you are or have been going through is not hell. Stop making it bigger than what it is. Let's keep it real, hm?